He's Just Not That Into You

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He's Just Not That Into You

PG-13

2009

2h 9m

Romance

Comedy

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Baltimore-based friends and lovers, all in their 20s and 30s, try to navigate their way through the complexities of modern relationships. Beth (Jennifer Aniston) wants commitment from Neil (Ben Affleck), who sees nothing wrong with the status quo. Gigi (Ginnifer Goodwin) is tired of waiting by the phone, while Mary (Drew Barrymore) has a slew of supportive male friends, none of whom are straight. Meanwhile, Janine has trust issues with her husband, who can't trust himself around Anna.

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Critics Consensus

Despite the best efforts of a talented cast, He's Just Not That Into You devotes too little time to each of its protagonists, thus reducing them to stereotypes.

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Shubhra Gupta

The Indian Express

Apr 26, 2019

What's surprising is how many marquee names [Ken] Kwapis has lined up for these regurgigated romantic lectures on when to know when someone is into someone.

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Candice Frederick

Reel Talk Online

Sep 12, 2017

B-

... it was entertaining and it addressed all the normal relationships troubles people face each day.

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David Stratton

The Australian

Feb 20, 2009

2.5/5

Though the actors involved are mostly major players, the material they've been given to work with is very old hat.

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Brian Eggert

Deep Focus Review

Dec 15, 2023

2.5/4

The stories will have audiences saying, “I know just how they feel.” And since your standard Hollywood rom-com often avoids reality whatsoever, the mild dose of truth in He’s Just Not That Into You is both refreshing and welcomed.

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Mike Massie

Gone With The Twins

Nov 28, 2020

5/10

Although it's disguised as a Valentine's Day flick, and the advertising tries to convince that it isn't filled exclusively with mushy stuff, it's certainly not fun-loving.

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Rachel Wagner

Rachel's Reviews (YouTube)

Oct 19, 2020

For the most part about 80% of the love stories work and are compelling

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James B

@RT54975811 Oct 17, 2026

Wife and I saw this when it came out in the theaters and really enjoyed it. I realized I hadn't given it a rating yet on Rotten Tomatoes and we decided to give it another watch. It still holds up even though it is some 17 years later. It's a great romantic comedy with a hint of drama. All star cast really delivers in this. Great movie!

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treeart Z

@RT18173845 Oct 6, 2026

lili推荐，但是实在看不下去，太直白了

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Carolyn N

@PonySoldier Oct 3, 2026

This movie was better than I expected after seeing the low scores on RT. The acting was pretty good, the script was above average and the movie ends happily. Definitly worth a watch if you enjoy rom-coms.

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Robert P

@Superbad Sep 6, 2026

This movie is worth *3* star movie

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Elizabeth D

@RT62064577 Aug 15, 2026

I’m surprised it has such a low rating, I think it one of the better of these type of films, feels genuinely plausible and the ending is pretty enlightened for 2009 imo

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Missy H

@RT34348508 May 14, 2026

Great movie! It's one of those "how have I not seen this before" kind of movies 🙂

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Synopsis

Baltimore-based friends and lovers, all in their 20s and 30s, try to navigate their way through the complexities of modern relationships. Beth (Jennifer Aniston) wants commitment from Neil (Ben Affleck), who sees nothing wrong with the status quo. Gigi (Ginnifer Goodwin) is tired of waiting by the phone, while Mary (Drew Barrymore) has a slew of supportive male friends, none of whom are straight. Meanwhile, Janine has trust issues with her husband, who can't trust himself around Anna.

Director: Ken Kwapis
Producer: Nancy Juvonen
Screenwriter: Abby Kohn, Marc Silverstein
Distributor: Warner Bros.
Production Co: New Line Cinema, Internationale Filmproduktion Blackswan, Flower Films
Rating: PG-13 (Sexual Content|Brief Strong Language)
Genre: Romance, Comedy
Original Language: English
Release Date (Theaters): Feb 6, 2009, Wide
Release Date (Streaming): Mar 1, 2011
Runtime: 2h 9m

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